Just when you think you are settling into parenthood tasks with a consummate ease and efficiency like a well oiled sports car, I am sure, you have encountered, as my parents have, occasions where people on the fence start to impose their theory to things they have been doing with blindfolds on. There are always better ways to do things, more appropriate ways to handle crisis, but more often than not, they just want to do it the way they want, did it the way we deem best. Maybe my parents can pass on the knowledge and lessons to younger ones next time... by which time they'd become "people on the fence" themselves. *akaka*